My Answer

I finally figured out what I'm going to say to the next person who says, 

"God, only gives babies like that to strong women. I'm not strong enough to handle all of what you handle."

I'm going to say, "How come? Strength comes from muscles. When you commit to making muscle, you become strong...and why is it that you believe your god thinks you're weak?"

I'm so glad I finally came up with an answer!

I'll say it gently, of course...don't want to overwhelm the weak.